♥ Made to order
Allow up to six weeks from the day you spot your diamond until it sparkles on your finger. If you're designing your own ring, place your order three to six months in advance.

♥ Ask around
Find a trustworthy jeweler. Get recommendations from friends and brides in your area. It’s important to take your time: If a jeweler is pushy, move on to another store.

♥ A perfect fit
You'll want to choose a ring that matches your personal style, but keep in mind that the stone shape should flatter your hand as well.

♥ The four c's
Once you've decided on a shape, focus on color, cut, clarity, and carat—it's wise to read up on them before you start shopping. Check out our Wedding Rings Glossary to learn more.

♥ Money matters
Map out your budget—and stick to it. Be upfront about what you can afford, then shop around to find the highest-quality ring in your price range.

♥ Sizing it up
Don't sacrifice quality for size. A smaller stone that's higher in quality will be worth more in the long run. But if size really does matter, consider oval, pear and marquise gems—these shapes make a diamond look the largest.